Homeschooling Teens and Finding Freedom

Homeschooling Teens and Finding Freedom

A love letter from one mother to another, to the public school mom who is considering a difficult decision.

As a mother, I have always strived to provide the best education and nurturing environment for my children. However, after several years of watching my teenagers struggle in the public school system, I made the difficult decision to pull them out and embrace the world of homeschooling. It was a leap of faith, but one that has completely transformed our lives. In this blog post, I would like to share my personal viewpoint as a mom who is homeschooling teens and the incredible journey we have embarked upon together.

Discovering the Flaws in the System

The decision to homeschool was not made overnight. Over time, I began to notice that my teens were losing their passion for learning within the rigid structure of the public school system. They were often overwhelmed by large class sizes, standardized tests, and a lack of individualized attention. It became clear that the system was not catering to their unique needs and strengths. Homeschooling offered a chance to break free from these constraints and rediscover the joy of learning.

Tailoring Education to Individual Needs

One of the greatest advantages of homeschooling is the ability to tailor education to each child’s individual needs. No longer confined to a one-size-fits-all curriculum, I have the freedom to create personalized learning plans that cater to my teens’ interests, strengths, and learning styles. Whether it’s delving deeper into a subject they are passionate about or taking extra time to understand challenging concepts, we can move at a pace that works best for them.

Nurturing a Love for Lifelong Learning

Homeschooling has allowed me to cultivate a love for lifelong learning within my teenagers. With the flexibility of our schedule, we can explore various topics beyond traditional subjects, such as art, music, gardening, or even entrepreneurship. Together, we have the opportunity to delve into real-life experiences, take field trips, and engage in hands-on activities that ignite their curiosity and passion for knowledge. Learning has become an adventure, not a chore.

Strengthening Family Bonds

Homeschooling has brought our family closer together in ways I never anticipated. The shared experience of learning and growing together has fostered a deeper connection between my teens and me. We have more time for meaningful conversations, shared hobbies, and exploring the world around us as a family. Homeschooling has not only enriched their education but has also strengthened our bond as a unit.

Embracing Independence and Self-Direction

One of the key skills my teens have developed through homeschooling is independence and self-direction. Without the constant guidance of teachers, they have learned to manage their time, set goals, and take responsibility for their own education. These skills will undoubtedly serve them well as they transition into adulthood and navigate future endeavors.

A Final Word

Choosing to homeschool my teenagers after pulling them out of public school was a decision that transformed our lives for the better. By embracing this journey, we have rediscovered the joy of learning, fostered a love for lifelong education, and strengthened our family bonds. It has empowered my teens to become independent learners, and I am confident that the skills and experiences gained through homeschooling will shape their future success.

While homeschooling may not be the right path for everyone, for our family, it has been a true blessing. The freedom to personalize education, nurture passions, and build a strong foundation has made this journey truly worthwhile. As a mom, I am grateful for the opportunity to witness my teenagers thrive in an environment that celebrates their uniqueness and allows them to reach their full potential.


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The Remarkable Gift of Grit

The Remarkable Gift of Grit

Ready for Adventure?

But here’s the twist: “Enchantment” wasn’t just about sand particles or meteorological mischief; it was a metaphor for something greater. It embodied the essence of courage, resolve, and unwavering strength. Yes, my friends, we’re talking about grit – that powerful blend of passion and perseverance that seems to be in short supply these days.

In a world where people easily crumble like delicate snowflakes and take offense at the drop of a hat, it’s high time we pondered this vital question: Are our children truly growing in grit? Are they emerging as fearless warriors, fortified with unyielding character and an indomitable spirit? Because let me tell you, this remarkable gift of grit will serve as their secret weapon in navigating an increasingly secular world.

So join me on this gritty adventure as we explore the importance of grit and why it’s high time we raise a generation of resilient, tenacious individuals who can conquer any challenge that comes their way. Trust me, it’ll be one heck of a ride.

Get Intentional!

In her excellent book, aptly titled, Grit, Angela Duckworth, takes on the task of developing the idea of grit in our children. She advocates for making Grit development a part of kid’s life skills curriculum.

I couldn’t agree more. Our kids need grit. It’s what allows them to go out and compete, take risks, fail and try again.

Key Ingredients for Developing Grit

  1. Practice– Practice is what lets us learn as we go. To practice and develop well we must get assessment and feedback.
  2. Purpose– Grit is not always about pursuing those things that we might have a natural inclination toward. Students should consider pursuing something that we can develop an interest in over the long term.
  3. Hope- This is tied to trying and failing. Failure is a huge part of developing grit. We need to teach our kids that success does not come without failure. Winners keep pursuing goals despite setbacks.
  4. Time– We need to set aside time to practice with deliberation, fail and succeed.

Create Some Grit Goals

Angela Duckworth has some practical recommendations for bestowing the remarkable gift of grit to your children:

  1. Choose something that requires deliberate daily practice.
  2. Commit to doing this activity for 2 years.
  3. Finish what you’ve started for specified interval.

Latin was our Grit Goal

In our homeschool, we utilized grit goals. For two years we studied Latin together. As a result, my two younger kids developed a true love for language learning. It’s now been several years since. My son taught Latin through college earning excellent money and graduating debt free. My daughter has gained fluency in a Critical Language and has studied 4 other languages since. The point is, that one grit goal developed their understanding of what they could do. They developed the tools and skills needed to do difficult things. That little bit of grit made them grittier.

Latin 1 for homeschoolers

Latin I

Latin teaches students how to manage many moving parts, including vocabulary, grammar, declensions, conjugations, tenses and culture. The’ll learn English grammar in a new and intentional way as well as develop critical thinking skills. Learning Latin is a great grit goal!

Grit Goals Make your Grittier

Our grit goal for this coming year will change, as our family changes, and kids grow. Our oldest son is at Boot Camp, as I write this. A program that bestows on thousands of young people the remarkable gift of grit each year. Our second son is participating in a demanding memory work competition, Our youngest has added another language to her list.

Grit goals can be academic, physical, social, mental, spiritual. Where is your student the most vulnerable? It might be time to think about some grit goals so that they can develop the courage needed to face whatever’s ahead.

Coaching

ACADEMIC COACHING

Every serious athlete knows that they’ll go farther, faster, save time, money and avoid injuries when they employ the help of a coach. Our Academic Coaches have years of experience in homeschooling, understanding higher academia and love to help you and your family create affordable, actionable plans that get you where you want to be and are called to action.

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Essential Tips to Homeschool High School

Essential Tips to Homeschool High School

You Can Homeschool High School

Homeschooling High School can be intimidating, to be sure. But, for some reason, you are or have considered it, and you are ready to take the plunge! Many people are intimidated by homeschooling High School because they feel like they can’t cover all of the subject areas adequately.

Why are we so afraid?

Well truthfully, for most of us, it HAS been years since we took Algebra.  We might never have been that good at writing, or we don’t have a good handle on history or science. And seriously, WHAT is a credit and how do we create a Master Plan of Action to get through these next couple of years with our strong-willed, bored, lazy, overly compliant, non-compliant, willful, just wants to read all the time, hates math, never wants to read ever, delightful, funny, sleeping all the time, hungry ALL the time teenager?!  Honestly, it’s enough to make anyone’s head spin!

The good news, actually the GREAT news is, that homeschooling high school has never been easier. Resources and materials for homeschooling High School have exploded in the last couple of years, making it possible to craft an academically rigorous, delight-directed, interest-led, affordable program for your teen!

So what are these resources, and where do you find them?

Online Learning

Online resources are more diverse and range from free to expensive, with amazing content and quality. Some classes are live, some are pre-recorded, and some are animated. We’ve done our fair share of online courses ranging from Latin National Exam prep, Math, Greek, Pre-law, Marine Biology, Chemistry, and more. Online classes can fill in areas that you aren’t prepared or qualified to teach.

Local Homeschool Groups

Closer to home, most cities have a plethora of homeschool class days, co-ops, and academic programs that are inexpensive to participate in and easily accessible. Our regional Homeschool Facebook page lists area groups and contact information. Many of us are involved in more than one group at a time, depending on our schedules and kids’ interests.  Additionally, area points of interest have begun to offer homeschool-specific programs, such as our local Outdoor Campus.

Having homeschooled in different areas of the country, it’s been my experience that the local homeschool community usually develops its own culture and unique offerings. We know of one large city that hosts a huge Homeschool Prom. Our smaller city hosts a yearly dinner dance, and we also have a rich and diverse theater program for kids of all ages, with Drama Camp,  a yearly festival of One-Act Plays, and a Shakespeare Camp, where kids perform a full-length Shakespeare Camp!

Online Support Groups

Still can’t find what you’re looking for? Then there’s probably a group online that can help you out. Other homeschooling moms are extremely helpful, and more than likely there’s one out there who can answer your questions. A simple Facebook (or Google) search will likely lead you to a wide variety of online homeschooling groups.  There all your questions can be answered. Don’t skip this valuable resource!

(Are you looking for a fantastic online support group?  Check out the Help Homeschooling High School group on Facebook.)

How does one take advantage of all of the amazing possibilities open to homeschoolers these days?  You create a learning plan.

In my opinion, having helped hundreds of homeschoolers from around the world as an Academic Advisor, the most straightforward way to get through high school is to create a learning plan. This plan should include academics, family values, extracurricular, sports, and more!

If you need help with this, check out our Academic Advising package! We provide credit evaluation, a Personalized Learning Plan, standardized testing, vocational testing, and more!

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Homeschooling High School can be such a rich, rewarding experience with the right plan and resources. Lucky for all of us, they are more available than ever before!

 

Get your homeschool high school plan on track with our Homeschool Highschool? HELP! Bootcamp Challenge. With a daily email with a video from Lisa Nehring, a workbook, and a Facebook group for support, you’ll be confident you can homeschool high school in no time. 

Should I Homeschool

Should I Homeschool

Should I Homeschool is a topic many parents consider, particularly since Covid! There’s always a lot of talk and questions every from those considering homeschooling. Perhaps you are wondering “Should I homeschool?”  It’s always frightening to take the road less traveled. If you are sitting on the fence, take heart. Here are some easy questions you can ask to determine if you should homeschool or not.

Should I homeschool? It's a question that many parents face at one time or another. Check out these easy questions to determine if you should homeschool. #homeschool #newhomeschoolers #TrueNorthHomeschoolAcademy

1. Define your nightmare

If you did or do, homeschool, what would be the worst case scenario/outcome for you? My worse case nightmare would be illiterate kids that lived with me till the day.I.die. I like my kids. Really. I don’t like cooking three meals a day, cleaning up after everybody, managing rides, and schedules and laundry. The people rock. The workload, not so much.

The 2nd nightmare is that I go a bit nuts. Actually, the 2nd nightmare is more my husband and kid’s nightmare. It does occur on occasion. Fortunately, the benefits of homeschooling outweigh the nightmare. (Right, honey?!)

2. What steps could you take to repair the damage?

You know, if the worst case scenario panned out. A solid phonics program. Installing locks on the door. Move with no forwarding address. Prepare the children well. Engage, or marry, a good therapist.  Wait, I did that one!

3. What are the outcomes/benefits, both temporary & permanent of more probable scenarios?

You know, if you were more successful than the worst case scenario. My kids would be literate (and literary). They would move out, have successful, amazing lives of their own.  They would travel the world, make friends, and influence people.  They might even earn degrees and money.  Hopefully, they will have joyful marriages and healthy, delightful kids, laughing out loud and loving the Master of the Universe.

4. If you were forced to homeschool today, what would you do to get things under control?

You know, if you HAD to homeschool. For example, I would start by developing my teaching skills and plan for the year, then creating a seasonal and daily schedule. Next, I would order an excellent curriculum, based on my plans. Enroll in quality enrichment programs. Develop a lifestyle of learning. De-clutter my house. Streamline my life. Strategize in order to get it all done.

5. What are you putting off out of fear?

Are you delaying deciding because you think you’ll fail (see step #1), or because you think you’ll go nuts? (see step #2)

6. What is it costing you? 

Your kid’s safety? Your kid’s learning environment?  What is the motivation to even consider homeschooling? What do you hope will be different if you begin homeschooling? Write the vision and make it clear.

7. What are you waiting for?

Will the cost diminish if you wait or procrastinate or will the cost increase? If the cost will increase, perhaps it’s time to take a leap of faith and jump on in. C’mon! The water’s just fine!!  So we know the question is “Should I homeschool?”, but what’s your answer?
Ready to take the plunge? With our online classes, academic advising, and fantastic electives True North can help you today!  Let us help you be the best homeschooling mom you can be.

Christmas Peppermint Pancake Party

Chocolate Peppermint Pancakes

Homeschool Holidays

Pancakes; Christmas Peppermint Party!

Do you have a house full of hungry home-schoolers? These pancakes are easy enough to whip up a batch or two on a cold winter morning and fill those hungry tummies with whole wheat goodness. Your littles will love making them with you- pounding up the peppermint and sprinkling them on top of the pancakes.  Your middle and older kids can learn to make them on their own.  These pancakes are simple to make but special enough for Christmas and your other favorite holidays! If you’re gluten free, just substitute the whole wheat and white flour with your favorite gf flour.

Peppermint Pancakes

  • 1 cup whole wheat flour 
  • 1 cup white flour
  • 1 tbsp baking powder
  • ¼ cup cocoa
  • ¼ cup sugar
  • 2 eggs
  • 2 cups milk
  • Either 2tsp Peppermint extract or
  • ¼ cup ground, dried peppermint
  • Candy canes, crushed
  • (make your pancakes gluten free by substituting your favorite gf flour)

Directions for Perfect Pancakes

  1. Mix dry
  2. Add wet
  3. Butter griddle, and scoop ¼ cup batter for each pancake
  4. Sprinkle peppermint on top, or mix it in.
  5. Drizzle with your favorite syrup, fruit and whipped cream for a beautiful and delicious breakfast!
  6. Your Christmas Peppermint Pancake Party is about to begin. Set a fancy table with fine Christmas china or eat in front of the Christmas tree;  pajamas and pancakes are a winning combo on Christmas, or any holiday morning!

Eat & Enjoy

Christmas Peppermint Pancake

Sarah Bean Food for Homeschoolers

My name is Sarah Bean, I am 23 and live in Utah. I homeschool 2 kids, Ellie (4) and Will (2). We also teach kids to cook. Some may think they are too young for schooling, but tell that to them! My approach is simple. Learning can be found everywhere, everyday, in all things. Interested based learning is what they do best!  Sarah blogs at Raising Human Beans